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What we get wrong about socialization
What we get wrong about socialization
What we get wrong about socialization
DEEP DIVE
The Socialization Question
For decades, the question "But what about socialization?" has been the ultimate trump card against homeschooling. The fear is that you'll raise "weird" kids who can't function in the real world.
But this question is based on a flawed premise: that the environment inside a traditional school is "normal."
Is it normal to spend 15,000 hours in an artificially age-segregated environment, where you only interact with people born in the same year as you? The real world doesn't work that way.
This week's deep dive explores why the "normal" schooling environment might be the weirdest social experiment of all, and how to confidently build a social world for your child that's both richer and more practical).
Podcast Highlight: No degree? No problem.
In our latest episode, Isaac sits down with 18-year-old Kade Hinkle, who landed a full-time job in B2B SaaS sales before he even graduated high school.
Kade isn't a child prodigy. And yet his story offers a masterclass in modern career-launching. He breaks down the exact process he used to get hired in a competitive industry. You'll learn how to leverage LinkedIn, why learning industry lingo is a superpower, and how a simple, authentic social media post can land you a job offer.
Tools of The Week
- Find Your Path: The biggest barrier to alternative education is no longer finding resources—it's navigating the overwhelming number of options. SmartPath's free "Matcher" tool helps families map their specific needs to the right curricula from a database of thousands. In just a few minutes, you get a curated path based on your child's learning style and your family's values.
- Prisma's College-Bound Playbook: For homeschooled teens set on going to college, knowing how to navigate the admissions process is key. Prisma's guide explains how students can stand out, and use a certain kind of "weirdness" to their advantage.
Trends of the Week
- AI as the Great Clarifier: Matt Bowman notes that beyond just changing how kids learn, AI is exposing what traditional education actually produces. If AI can handle the main output of twelve years of schooling (test-taking, essay completion), then what exactly has the system been teaching? It's forcing a conversation parents can no longer ignore. Here more on the SmartPath podcast.
- The Inbound Job Offer: Kade Hinkle didn't get his job by submitting a resume. He created what the sales industry calls an inbound opportunity. After months of networking on LinkedIn, he made a single, authentic post that got seen by his future manager. Two weeks later, after a skills test that involved mock calls and writing sample emails, he had an offer. He didn't ask for permission; he created proof and let the job come to him. This is a powerful new model for career-launching that bypasses traditional gatekeepers entirely. Watch the clip on LinkedIn.
Parting Thought
Parents don't always choose a particular form of schooling because it's best for their kids.
Sometimes they choose what feels safest for themselves.
"The natural parenting instinct is to think, ‘We're never quite measuring up to the Joneses next door,’" Matt observed on the SmartPath podcast.
"Every parent has insecurity around that comparison that by default, but no one criticizes you for just dropping your kids off at your local school."
Instead of building confidence in their ability to guide their child's education, parents transfer that confidence to an institution. The school becomes the expert, and the parent becomes the chauffeur.
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